Everyone need to know their priority. For a husband for instance, their mother always come first before their own wife but for a wife, their husband will always be their priority.
Above is just a simple example. In our daily lives, we also need to set priority. As a student, what is more important than your study. You may join simple business such as MLM or what so eva, but study is always on top of the list. But still, it depend on the individual. Different person may have different view.
In the context of love, things may be quite complicated coz the definition of love itself is very universal. Love to God, parent, lovers, friends, and even plants or animals. But which one is your priority? For me, love to God is always a priority, then love to my parent. Nowadays, we heard a lot in the news, newspaper, magazine, and etc that people tend to neglect their parent and did not seek for their blessing. They going blind for love. They thought they made a right decision.
وَقَضَى رَبُّكَ أَلَّا تَعْبُدُوا إِلَّا إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا إِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَّ عِنْدَكَ الْكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُمَا أَوْ كِلَاهُمَا فَلَا تَقُلْ لَهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُلْ لَهُمَا قَوْلًا كَرِيمًا
“Dan Tuhanmu telah memerintahkan supaya kamu jangan menyembah selain Dia dan hendaklah kamu berbuat baik pada ibu bapakmu dengan sebaik-baiknya. Jika salah seorang di antara keduanya atau kedua-duanya sampai berumur lanjut dalam pemeliharaanmu, maka sekali-kali janganlah kamu mengatakan kepada keduanya perkataan "ah" dan janganlah kamu membentak mereka dan ucapkanlah kepada mereka perkataan yang mulia”
(Surah Al-Isra’ : 23)
Sabda Rasulullah s.a.w.,
"Keredhaan Allah terletak pada keredhaan ibubapa manakala kemurkaan Allah terletak pada kemurkaan ibubapa"
In private life, set priority is also crucial for me. this is a lil story about my love life~ Once, i felt guilty of breakin someone's heart. i kept saying im guilty and kept sighing. I dont want him to hate me that much. Come to think about it, im being selfish. Yes, he's hurt, but what about my current other's half. why i put my attention to someone who no longer related to me. he hate me, he dont wanna be my friend anymore..well let it be. i've done my part, i've seek forgiveness, and i pray for his happiness. why? because he no longer my priority. i have set my priority on someone's else now. He's my everything. I should focus on him, make him happy, and take a very good care of the relationship. He maybe still hates me, but there's nothing more i can do. im not gonna wastin my time begging for fwenship anymore. u fall, u may crawling back up here but u choose to keep falling..then just fall. there's nothin more i can do. you are not my priority anymore. But that just for couple of months, thank god u made it. u found your own way of life. now, he's happy, n of course i am happier.
Do forgive and forget what had happened if u wish to move on. Well some may say move on is not easy,bla bla bla. then choose by your own, torture your ownself with sadness or go out there and get a life*search for a cute gul would be good =p*